H.E.R. – Against Me Lyrics

Against Me

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"Against Me." - H.E.R.

Wednesday, 16 September 2026, 02:56 am

Album: I Used To Know Her

Track No: 12

Yeah, yeah, yeah, huh
Yeah (Da-da, da-da)
Oh yeah, uh

I should've listen to my intuition
I put myself in this position
It's all my fault
Look in the mirror think what am I missin'?

See and think different, oh, am I lost?
Feelin' a way, nothing's the same
I wish you would change, oh, I'm lost
Numbin' the pain, don't make it okay
Nothin' to say but

You brought all the issues (Issues)
And I would stay here with you
Don't hold it against me (Against me)
Against me (against me)
Hold it against me, against me (Yeah)

And I don't trust you lately
And if that makes me crazy
Can't hold it against me (Against me)
Against me (Against me)
Hold it against me, yeah

Feel like I'm driftin'
Know he notice the distance and love ain't been blockin' my vision
But that ain't my fault (My fault)
That he was the difference, you let him get in that position

I'm too comfortable now
Ain't feelin' a way, nothing's the same
I think every day that we're lost, yeah
And love ain't enough but it's holdin' me up
Love ain't enough 'cause

You brought all the issues (Yeah)
And I would stay here with you (Stay here with you)
Don't hold it against me (Against me)
Against me (Against me)
Hold it against me, against me

And I don't trust you lately (Say I don't trust you)
And if that makes me crazy (If that makes me crazy)
Can't hold it against me (Against me)
Against me (Yeah, yeah)
Hold it against me (Against me), yeah
(Against me)

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh
Oh, oh, yeah (Against me)
(Against me)
(Against me)

To my women with the utmost respect, intellect
We often forget and neglect intuition can see through illusive intent
Listen to it
(Just listen, just listen, oh)

I found myself searching for a way to prevent, the detriment
And giving the impression that if you express to him what a woman needs
His comprehension is definite
But there's a difference between understanding and honoring your word
And I'm articulate, he's a good listener but I'm hesitant
'Cause he's gonna fuck up anyways (Anyways, anyways, anyways)

(Baby just listen, listen, listen, oh)

In the corners of a man's mind is a place where vulnerability hides
And intimacy is not the act of physical intertwine
But it's the isolation of two minds
That's why he keeps his heart and his head seperate
There's only one he can connect with
The multiple names on a checklist
Only calls when he's desperate

I guess, it's too much pressure to be respectful and honest
It's too stressful to be keeping promises and I'm impatient
I'm too high maintenance, way too many expectations when
We're just dating
But I'm special, right?
Deny, deny, deny
All you do is lie, word is bond right?
But not with me because I don't know what it's like

I'll never understand the needs of a man or how to nurture
And what she doesn't know can't hurt her
But nah, it's deep and you know it
I told you exactly what I wanted
And that love is exhausting
But I'm not tired of you yet

(Oh, no, woah, no)

To my women with the utmost respect, intellect
We often forget and neglect
Intuition can see through illusive intent
Listen to it

Writer(s): Jeffrey Rashad, Nizzy, Farsi, SoundzFire, Cardiak, H.E.R..

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